I nodded. "I'm not here to take anything from him."
Mark studied me, weighing that.
"Good," he said. "Because I'm his dad in every way that counts."
"And I respect that," I replied.
"I need some time to swallow this, Ivy, but we're going to handle it like adults," he said.
He took a deep breath before continuing.
"Ma'am, I don't know what you expect, but Theo is my son in every way that matters. This can't be a tug-of-war."
"I don't want that," I said. "I just want a chance to be there for him... within reason, of course. Financially, too. Owen would have wanted that. He's my blood, too."
"This can't be a tug-of-war."
"If we do this, we do it slow," Mark said. "Counselor, clear boundaries, and Theo leads the pace. No surprises."
Just then Ms. Moreno pitched in. "We can set up the counselor. Boundaries will be documented."
"We'll talk," Mark said. "We want what's best for him."
At that moment, I felt a crack of possibility opening between us.
**
The next Saturday, I walked into a local diner. I spotted them in a booth by the window: Ivy, Mark, and Theo, already halfway through a plate of pancakes.
"We want what's best for him."