Have you ever woken up and felt like the world was just slightly tilted on its axis? That was me on the morning we were supposed to leave for a dream family vacation.
My husband, Mark, turned 35 that year. For months, he had been talking about wanting a real vacation with his parents.
Now, we didn't see my in-laws much. They lived three states away.
We didn't have kids yet, and I was doing great at my job, so I thought, why not give him the best birthday gift ever?
He had been talking about wanting a real vacation with his parents.
I went all out.
I booked an all-inclusive getaway to Florida, paid for the flights and the five-star resort. I handled every single detail.
His parents, Margaret and Arthur, seemed so grateful. Margaret even sent me a little note saying how much she looked forward to the "bonding time."
The night before our flight, I was a whirlwind of energy.
Then, something happened that I should have flagged.
I booked an all-inclusive getaway to Florida.
Mark came into the bedroom with a steaming mug.
"I made you some chamomile tea, honey."
He was smiling calmly in a way that seemed a little awkward, but the weirdest part was the tea. Mark never made me tea. He always said it was too complicated.
"Oh? Thank you, that's unusually thoughtful of you," I said.
He chuckled. "Well, you'll need the rest for our early flight! You've been rushing around all evening, and I figured you might be too wired to sleep."
Mark never made me tea.